Habits Every Montessori Parent Should Develop

​Maria Montessori developed the Montessori methods to raise children in a better way and help parents develop habits that will be beneficial for them in the long run. If you have children that are attending Montessori, you need to develop the following habits.

• Accept

​You need to know that Montessori classrooms are inclusive of all ages, and you need to accept the decorum of the classroom. Some parents can be apprehensive but let me tell you that it could be the best thing that happens to your children. The reasoning is that children learn to model, and to watch older children do things makes your younger one develops those skills as well. Older children also use leadership and communication skills which can be helpful in your child’s growth.

•  Communication

Communication is very important, especially if you have a child attending Montessori. However, effective communication requires a few skills which you need to master. First, develop a habit of always communicating with your child at an eye level. If you want to say something to your child with authority, you need to bend down on your knees and then state what it is you want him to do. A child having to look up to you to communicate while you are standing can never be an effective communication technique. Always talk to your children by lowering yourself down to their eye level.

•  Look Out 

You need to observe your child for a few minutes during the day as it can be the most effective habit for a parent to develop. You do not have to intervene with your child as you just need to observe him/her, observe the routine, and get an idea of how to deal with the child. Once you start doing it during the day, you will realize it can be one of the most insightful techniques for you as a parent.

• Autonomy

Your child's autonomy or freedom should never be compromised. You need to learn how to give your child freedom within limits. Set boundaries and see what your child needs the most, and then give him autonomy to reach out for his goals and help him become a useful member of society.
We understand that a huge responsibility lies on the parents but believe in yourself, and you will get there.